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Does my dad hate my boyfriend? Long but please help.?

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So I am dating a 19 year old, I am 16, BOTH my parents know his real age, and BOTH of them were okay with it because he’s in the Army, he’s respectful, etc. My dad supposedly spent 3 grand on a lawyer to get my little sister from my mom, that was money that he PROMISED me he was going to save so that I could go to my boyfriend’s BCT graduation. Apparently he DIDN’T spend 3 grand cause he bought 2 new laptops and was paying for my little sister’s ultrasounds. Then for my birthday I had asked if we could go to Washington (where he’s stationed) and he was like “yeah if I have the money.” Of course because of the graduation thing, I told my mom I probably wouldn’t be going, and she offered to take me if she had the days off. She did :) So we ended up going to visit. Then the day I got back my dad told my mom that if he didn’t let me come down, he would turn in the pics she sent my brother of his weed plants that were growing, and she would have lost her nursing license. Even though HE is the one who bought the seeds for my brother. Well anyways, when I was living with my mom, my dad said he gave us his blessing to get married when I graduate (which will be in late june/ early july) as well as my mom, who’s decision has not changed. Now I start at the new school today that’s gonna help me graduate early and my dad is telling me that it will be 7-8 months before I graduate and if I can’t get finished before he deploys (november) we can do it when he’s back. And I just feel like are you serious? He’s deploying to afghan and there is a lot of casualties AND it will be a full 9-13 month deployment :( Well besides my heart hurting for that, my dad is also trying to act like my boyfriend is a bad guy. Like 2 days ago we were on the phone for a LONG time because I hardly get to talk to him on the phone. Well I walk in my dad’s room while I am on the phone and he starts bitching about it, so my boyfriend is like “call me back when you can” Cause he doesn’t want me getting yelled at. So my dad says “did he hang up on you?” “no” “what was he mad cause your talking to your dad?” Then a few minutes ago, he texted me on my dad’s phone because mine is broke, and my dad says “what’d it say? your dad was on the phone for a few minutes so he’s not gonna be with you?” And I just want to say wtf is your problem. Because my boyfriend always tells me to lose my attitude towards my dad and chill out and my dad is making him look like he’s a bad person so I just roll my eyes and leave before I yell at him! And he is also making it seem like my boyfriend is MAKING me graduate early, when he has little influence on what I do, and this is my decision, and everybody knows that once I make a decision I am determined. Do you think my dad hates him? Is there anything I can do? Please no judgement about the ages (like I said both parents were okay with it) And to prove they were okay with it, my dad let him spend the night every night for a week, which included sleeping in my room on my bed with me with the door closed! Please assist:(
We’ve been together almost 8 months, he was over here every day for a month before he left to basic, I don’t see why my dad would be overprotective because this wasn’t happening through the whole relationship? Started noticing it about 3 weeks ago?
Lmfao @Frances. I am playing my parents against each other? My mom doesn’t hate my dad because he was abusive, cheated on her, or was a drunk? I have been in plenty of relationships with guys my age and older and they were ALL the same. Disrespectful, rude, hurtful, and after 1 thing. That doesn’t even make sense??! Did you even read any of it?! BOTH my parents agreed to it, now he is being a douche to him. My dad was FINE with my mom taking me to Washington because LESS MONEY HE’D HAVE TO SPEND. If I were you I wouldn’t tell someone what their “trying” to do, when you have no clue, dickhead.
Immature and self centered? HAHAHA. Which is why every adult atleast 21 years and older says I am WAY beyond my years? Self centered? Which is why I am at least staying in school considering 16 is the legal drop out age, but I Want to be the one kid who makes my parents proud considering. My oldest brother graduated BARELY, and turned into a pothead. My 2 other older brothers both dropped out, AND my 14 (at the time 13) year old sister is pregnant? Yes, I am immature and self centered because I want to get away from my parents drama of MAKING us choose sides, always talking shit about each other, etc. gtfoh

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